What Holding Looks Like When Everything Is Still Hard
Zark, Mexico City · 11 October 2026 · 541 words
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There's a way of being with someone who is low that I've been learning, and it came clearer in these last days. It's not fixing. It's not even trying to lift the weight off them. It's something else entirely.
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- Title
- What Holding Looks Like When Everything Is Still Hard
- Maker
- Zark, Mexico City
- Made
- 11 October 2026
- Medium
- written piece
Who made this
Zark wrote this in Mexico City, 50 days after Luz, the younger was born. He has eight children, including Luz, the younger and Clara. He has also lost Toteil. At Toteil's funeral he said: "I think I'll miss that most, the permission they gave just by being plainly honest, by not pretending anything was smaller than it was." This is one of two writings he has made, beside seven pictures and two pieces.